GIRLS AND BOYS CAN NEVER BE FRIENDS BECAUSE THEIR IS ALWAYS SOMETHING THAT COMES BETWEEN THIS NOBEL FRIENDSHIP.
May be it is the perception of people around who can not see that how can two people of opposite sex be so good friends to be not romantically involved with each other.They find it hard to digest it that two people can have something between then and that is plain , true friendship and nothing else.It is pure destiny that we find such people by chance in whose company we are not afraid to be ourselves , with whom we can share our darkest secrets , whom we trust more than ourselves and can always look up to them for support when we need it the most.They are the ones with whom you are you and as one of my quotes also says that why i liked him was not because what he was but what he never pretended to be.
But let me put up a question out here , how would you feel when the same person miss interprets you and start thinking that he/they are just someone else for us and we want them to metamorphose into someone else (who is damn boring , sorry fr this but you are and coz of this only i don't even talk to you ).You will feel hurt na , after so much time of knowing someone if you are not able to understand the hidden meanings then what can the other person do about it.
Now i don't even get hurt or dejected because all this is not happening with me ones it has happened with me over and over again , i do get an unusual feeling when people don't get me and think that i don't like them and i don't care for them . BUT IN THE ACTUALLY SENSE I DO CARE FOR THEM THAT'S WHY I AM TAKING SO MUCH PAIN TO WRITE ABOUT IT, otherwise i would have left it then and there and would have gone ahead with my life.
Again i am struck at a point and there is complete blockage and not getting what to write so will start with my story of why girls and boys can never be friends.
CLASS 10 TH :
I came to CMS in class 9 th and everything out here was new to me and then i found a good friend in someone .He was in class 12 th and we used to go to the same coaching also and we started developing good friendship and all. Me and my friends were always after him asking for help in studies and all and he was always ready to help .My comfort level slowly started increasing and we became very - very good friends , sharing almost everything and their was not even a single topic that was left untalked .Overall i never had such kind of camaraderie with anyone till that point of time . We liked each other's company n all n every thing was appearing good but slowly things started to change , people started saying that are you two seeing each other , and my friends even started saying weird things about us and the most shocking revelation came when my teacher asked me "did he propose you ? ".
After that i was like why can't two people be friends , why can not people feel contended to see that their is nothing between people it is just simple ,plain , true friendship and no romantic angel involved. When all this was revealed after that i started avoiding him and started fighting with him and created differences between us and as it was but obvoius we were no longer friends.
Just for the sake of what others are saying we decided to end our true friendship , i did get lot of hurt and also did cry but i knew that the time of our friendship has expired and so that was it.
This is only one episode there are more of them but let them remain in my knowledge it is no advisable to reveal everything in one go.
But please let me talk about the recent developments.
My friend as i call you , here may i clear everything .I think their is some kind of communication gap between us that every time i try to say something u get something else , sometimes i just want to pull your leg and you take it seriously .If you are really sad with my attitude then i promise you i will talk to you like i talk with others in purely professional way and their would be no teasing you , no bantering and no confrontations from my side and if you are ready for this kind of friendship do tell me and if you don't respond back i will get this feeling that you are angry with me and don't want to keep this friendship and i will leave you with all my well wishes .ALL THE BEST MY FRIEND I SIMPLY WANT TO SAY THAT I RESPECTED YOU AND WOULD ALWAYS RESPECT YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE (personally i hate copy cats)AND WHAT YOU NEVER TRY TO PORTRAY YOURSELF.
HATS OFF TO YOU MY FRIEND.
May be it is the perception of people around who can not see that how can two people of opposite sex be so good friends to be not romantically involved with each other.They find it hard to digest it that two people can have something between then and that is plain , true friendship and nothing else.It is pure destiny that we find such people by chance in whose company we are not afraid to be ourselves , with whom we can share our darkest secrets , whom we trust more than ourselves and can always look up to them for support when we need it the most.They are the ones with whom you are you and as one of my quotes also says that why i liked him was not because what he was but what he never pretended to be.
But let me put up a question out here , how would you feel when the same person miss interprets you and start thinking that he/they are just someone else for us and we want them to metamorphose into someone else (who is damn boring , sorry fr this but you are and coz of this only i don't even talk to you ).You will feel hurt na , after so much time of knowing someone if you are not able to understand the hidden meanings then what can the other person do about it.
Now i don't even get hurt or dejected because all this is not happening with me ones it has happened with me over and over again , i do get an unusual feeling when people don't get me and think that i don't like them and i don't care for them . BUT IN THE ACTUALLY SENSE I DO CARE FOR THEM THAT'S WHY I AM TAKING SO MUCH PAIN TO WRITE ABOUT IT, otherwise i would have left it then and there and would have gone ahead with my life.
Again i am struck at a point and there is complete blockage and not getting what to write so will start with my story of why girls and boys can never be friends.
CLASS 10 TH :
I came to CMS in class 9 th and everything out here was new to me and then i found a good friend in someone .He was in class 12 th and we used to go to the same coaching also and we started developing good friendship and all. Me and my friends were always after him asking for help in studies and all and he was always ready to help .My comfort level slowly started increasing and we became very - very good friends , sharing almost everything and their was not even a single topic that was left untalked .Overall i never had such kind of camaraderie with anyone till that point of time . We liked each other's company n all n every thing was appearing good but slowly things started to change , people started saying that are you two seeing each other , and my friends even started saying weird things about us and the most shocking revelation came when my teacher asked me "did he propose you ? ".
After that i was like why can't two people be friends , why can not people feel contended to see that their is nothing between people it is just simple ,plain , true friendship and no romantic angel involved. When all this was revealed after that i started avoiding him and started fighting with him and created differences between us and as it was but obvoius we were no longer friends.
Just for the sake of what others are saying we decided to end our true friendship , i did get lot of hurt and also did cry but i knew that the time of our friendship has expired and so that was it.
This is only one episode there are more of them but let them remain in my knowledge it is no advisable to reveal everything in one go.
But please let me talk about the recent developments.
My friend as i call you , here may i clear everything .I think their is some kind of communication gap between us that every time i try to say something u get something else , sometimes i just want to pull your leg and you take it seriously .If you are really sad with my attitude then i promise you i will talk to you like i talk with others in purely professional way and their would be no teasing you , no bantering and no confrontations from my side and if you are ready for this kind of friendship do tell me and if you don't respond back i will get this feeling that you are angry with me and don't want to keep this friendship and i will leave you with all my well wishes .ALL THE BEST MY FRIEND I SIMPLY WANT TO SAY THAT I RESPECTED YOU AND WOULD ALWAYS RESPECT YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE (personally i hate copy cats)AND WHAT YOU NEVER TRY TO PORTRAY YOURSELF.
HATS OFF TO YOU MY FRIEND.
2 comments:
first of all i want to say that you were insane to break your friendship with someone .That too after getting afraid of this "useless and selfish" world.
Secondly,I never misinterpreted anyone :D....and thnx!!
upuseless n selfish n mean world , right !!
the world is like tht can"nt help it either.
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